Games Women Play
There are some games women are playing in everyday life.
Butterflies
Women, who play in this game, don’t want serious relationship. Like a butterfly, which flies from one flower to another just to collect nectar, such a woman takes only the most important things from a man. After taking everything what she needs, she goes to another “flower”. Than one more time. And more and more… These companions don’t need special connections, and emotional touches with men. They are looking for an hour or two to enjoy the company. Fight with male’s disadvantages, with social, financial problems of the young family: all these things are not for a “butterfly”. “Butterflies” are easy-going, contact willing and, usually, haven’t got a lot of problems in lives. But there is one disadvantage - true intimacy and sexual healing or growth is rarely achieved with multitudes of partners.
Escorting is a great idea for these companions. They are usually attractive, high-class young escorts, who are providing the illusion, the fantasy of perfection. She is rarely in a position to want to be rescued anyway, as she has chosen and prefers this life for now - her dynamic spirit is due to the freedom she enjoys in her current lifestyle, and most importantly, the time she has to herself to refresh her soul and remain exclusive to her booking gentlemen. Try catching a free butterfly and keeping it in a cage - it doesn’t stay vibrant for long… She may settle down in time, but only when she is ready, and rarely with a man who has paid her for her time in the past. They may genuinely care for each other, but a life together is impractical.
Counterbalance
Women who play this game is not satisfied with her relationship with a man. She needs more attention, more compliments, more romantic moments. Such a lady can’t speak with her partner heart-to-heart, she uses a more “effective” way. And from her point of view, the most effective way is a new romance. New relationship, new romance, new gentleman is her trump. Sometimes this method works, man understands that he was not right, and finally they are living together very happily. But, honestly I don’t believe in strong relationship with such a life-companion. Who can guarantee that in a few weeks your partner will not do the same?
Learners
Usually young and inexperienced girls play this game. The aim is to gain experience. They want to learn everything about men, that’s why “learners” are interesting in communication, misunderstanding, sexual activities and so on. A powerful tool – a man (10-15 years older her).
Childhood Friends
Do you believe in real friendship between man and woman? I don’t mean friendly relationship, I mean real friends? I don’t believe. This lady (a friend from childhood) wants to be with you not because you are her best friend, there is one more point – she is interesting in a romantic relationship.
Calculators
The purpose – is to know how much money you have and how much can you spend. All these things about romances, love, friendly relationship are not about her. A man without money – is not a man in “calculator’s” eyes. After 15 minutes of communication these companions will ask: “Where are you living? What is your job? Do you satisfied with your job?”. Your answers are the main reason why she will stay or go out.
With all those “types” of women is possible to live, predict and build relationship. But, the difference in any successful relationship, be it part time or full time, is giving or taking. When both are giving, for the pleasure they receive from their partner’s joy, without expecting anything in return but knowing they have brought pleasure to another, this is successful. When both are taking, in it for what they can get from the other, there is only pain, disappointment and bitterness in their future. When one is giving and one is taking, if the giver is happy to never receive, it can work, but anyone with any self respect would never stay in this relationship. A natural and healthy relations are where both are giving, therefore they both receive by default, and get the additional pleasure from giving.